For the second time in as many months, I’ve had occasion to use a very popular remedy called, Staphysagria. This remedy is famous for physical issues like Surgery, incisions, having been cut, or injured.

It is a remedy quite famous for the emotional effects of physical and emotional harm to a victim. It is the number one remedy For Urinary tract infection with burning, from catheter, or the new bride: especially after humiliation.

Also, from the effects of Kidney stone blasting.

This remedy is amazing for healing “the whole person” during difficult times of injury and victimization.

I wanted to mention this today because, when I first began using homeopathy, I would kind of gloss over remedies that I didn’t feel really pertained to my world.

I thought that a remedy for urinary tract infections or emotional victims was not anything I had a need for.

Well, I was very wrong.  I now realize that this is one of those remedies that will probably be needed in just about everyone’s life at some time or other. 

For instance:

Staphysagria: A loving family begins a new business. Everything is going well, but there are so many changes in their lives. Longer hours, less family and prayer time. They find that they are only able to sit together for a meal on Sundays. Even the children are working beyond what should be expected of most adults. The parents become cranky and find that they are critical and demanding, but must keep up the stern attitude for fear that this new business venture will fail if they don’t elicit proper work habit from the entire family.

One day as the mother is correcting something that one her children did wrong, the child says, “You’re always yelling.” The mom, without skipping a beat, says, well just do it the way I tell you to; and you need to move more quickly!

So, without having listened to what her child was even saying, she just lectured more.

When she turned, the child had disappeared from the room. She called. No answer. She looked for the child. To no avail. She looked and looked, calling. Still, no answer. Then she saw the child hiding under a table. The child did not want to come out.

Suddenly she realized that she had literally driven the child into hiding by her hard, critical ways. It wasn’t that she was stern. It was because her own frustrations were being taken out on those she loved most! She was demanding without be loving and nurturing!

She had failed to see what this new lifestyle had done to the child. There was no balance, the child felt used and abused without comfort for their efforts (they felt victimized).

This mother, whom the child loved dearly, had actually been abusing the child’s trust and destroying their sense of comfort and safety.

What a horrible realization for this mother. (But God is good, realization is a gift, even though it can be hurtful) She gave the child a dose of Staphysagria 200c. The child immediately smiled and from that moment on, both child and mother were more content and open with their feelings. They were able to talk and work through the difficult times that they were going through.

Staphysagria: you wake one morning, your mood is ok, you know that there is a full agenda today and you already feel pressed for time. Your left eye is twitching with no other symptoms of illness or an impending cold? Hmm? Gosh, this eye is bothering me.

So, what is my real issue? Stress. I can’t seem to ever catch up on everything that others expect of me. (I am a victim of demand)…..one dose of Staphysagria 30c or 200c will alleviate the twitch and calm the mind feeling so used by those demanding of your time and attention.

Staphysagria: all families go through difficult times. Words can be exchanged, hurtful things said or not said that impact everyone.

It is “How” each person is affected that we need to look at. The Staphysagria person will feel like they are the “VICTIM,” they will use words like, I was betrayed, they just use me, I’m not really loved, I’m just used.

Ailments from shame, punishment, vexation and suppressed anger. Was insulted: being too dignified to fight, subdued his wrath and went home sick, trembling and exhausted.

It’s during times like this that the mind will be so hurt, it will throw symptoms out like retained urine, burning and aching in the kidney region, twitching eye, and more.

So many different symptoms can all point to the remedy called Staphysagria, if they “feel” they have been used, abused or made the victim.

No other remedy has the ability to heal the whole person, feeling victimized, like Staphysagria.

Any Ailments caused by or accompanied by a sense of violation with resentment: humiliation, embarrassment, bullied, offended, yelled at: physical/ sexual abuse: especially with suppression of anger-seething inside: deep guilt, shame. Gets testy, throws tantrums.

Think of Staphysagria!

May God Bless You and Yours,

Sue Meyer